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FriendFeed

I joined Facebook on June 7, 2007. It was a great time to discover what had been just available to College students. But what excited me the most was their approach to social media: they weren’t just a destination, they had become a platform.

Today that platform has become a vacuum of activities that happen in many other external services, like Spotify, Twitter or the Wall Street Journal. But those services are becoming too much half and half in my Facebook News Feed coffee.

According to Facebook’s IPO filing, they have lofty plans to connect the world: “There is a huge need and a huge opportunity to get everyone in the world connected, to give everyone a voice and to help transform society for the future.”

An article on the Guardian challenges that statement in not so romantic words, saying that Facebook should simply say the truth:

We help people connect in safe, convenient and innovative ways. In doing so, we’ve built a business of historic proportions. We make money selling advertising that is finely tuned to reach our users in cost-competitive ways. Because we believe in Facebook’s unlimited potential, we will manage ourselves for the long term rather than for short-term profit. We have built an ownership and control structure to accomplish this goal.

I believe the IPO will increasingly transform Facebook in a data-mining company that sucks everyone’s social graph for their own monetization goals, and will surely become more and more aggressive as stockholders usually request from a public company.

I refuse to be the cow to be milked to fund that business.

It’s a mystery to everyone how Facebook selects items to show up on the News Feed. But I seem to have received the worst part of the algorithm. I was careful to use Facebook for my real life friends and family. But I never saw them posting anything. Is it that I don’t have the right family and friends? Should I move to Silicon Valley to make social-media-active real life friends? Or is it that more and more Facebook falls into the 80/20 rule: 20% of the people post and 80% are stalkers? There is talk of Facebook fatigue:

The latest data shows Facebook Fatigue is spreading in the US from the early adopters who it identified as “disengaging” in the GWI.5 report. Declines in social networking activity such as messaging friends fell 12% over the six waves of research, searching for new contacts fell 17% and joining a group 19% among all Facebook users in the US.

To spice up my New Feed, I decided to follow a handful of people whom I have established “web friendships” on other social sites like FriendFeed, Twitter and Google+.

Now my feed is dominated by these people and I see even less of what my friends and family post. The Facebook “subscribe” feature has allowed it to become more like Twitter (with asymmetrical relationships) and thus, a platform for broadcasting. Again, not so much connecting. I think Twitter already does that and much better.

These days the main form of communication between me and my family is WhatsApp. We are also giving a chance to Path, which has already done a much better job with their mobile application than the crappy thing Facebook calls their mobile app.

Influential bloggers, like John Batelle, are crying out that all these silos like Facebook and Twitter are destroying the ecosystem that the original web was.

Then there are unsettling things like the fact that Facebook never deletes photos. They are working on a solution to erase them — in about 45 days.

But very much apart from that, I think Facebook, for me, has failed in its mission: it no longer connects me to the people that matter to me.

So, is Facebook still working for you?

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The Void Left by FriendFeed

April 3, 2010
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There is a natural cycle in Social Media applications, where there’s an initial excitement (the romantic phase), a leveling of activity (the wedding phase) and hopefully the “till death do us part” phase, where the application becomes part of our lives. But most often than not, there’s a divorce phase. The application just doesn’t measure [...]

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FriendFeed’s Lifecycle: A Story of the Modern Startup

December 9, 2009

Today I noticed Compete.com had come out with November stats. My blog had a spectacular month (and if you read it, you know why), but my intentions were other: to see how FriendFeed fared in a key month after its Facebook announcement has died down.

The graph doesn’t look good for FriendFeed, which has lost an additional 20% of its audience.

The question we, as FriendFeed fanatics ask ourselves is why? Why is a product that is so unique been left for dead all of a sudden.

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Check the Expiration Date on Your Favorite Startup

September 22, 2009
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Rob Diana has a provocative post today titled “What Do We Expect From A Startup Exit?” where he puts forward the thought that users should not expect startups to become multibillion corporations, but that exits are something that should be part of their lifecycle.

In effect, users should adopt products like they buy milk: checking their expiration date.

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Distributed Social Networking Might Be Dead On Arrival

September 15, 2009
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Blogs and geeks are buzzing (now you understand the picture above) about the release of FriendFeed’s web server code, named “Tornado“.

Tornado is an open source version of the scalable, non-blocking web server and tools that power FriendFeed. The FriendFeed application is written using a web framework that looks a bit like web.py or Google’s webapp, but with additional tools and optimizations to take advantage of the underlying non-blocking infrastructure.

Two of FriendFeed’s team members have moved their blogs to this new server technology.

The fact that anyone can download this piece of software opens the possibility that anyone can create the next FriendFeed, or maybe, if one stretches its developer’s mind, make it serve a thousand servers, talking to each other, finally giving way to the ever evading concept of Distributed Social Networking.

Of course, it’s not that simple.

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I’m A Social Media Castaway

September 14, 2009
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This is my first post in a month and I wanted to look back at what’s happened in the social media environment in the last 30 days.

Basically, nothing.

The truth is I needed a break, because (I’m sure you’ve heard it before) keeping up with social media can have its toll on your productivity.

Sometimes I think the whole thing goes out of hand.

You need to be up to speed with hundreds of friends, keep with hundreds of feeds, update your blog several times a week, and then there’s work and family.

I felt guilty, lost and anxious. What are they talking about? Do they miss me?

But I needed to get things done. There was a huge relaunch happening. A new project being developed. A site that was closing.

Today I feel more balanced.

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How to Bring Some FriendFeed Love to Facebook

August 15, 2009
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As every other FriendFeeder out there, I wanted to start the slow and painful migration from FriendFeed to Facebook (ironically FriendFeed staffers are moving as well) and of course, it’s been a rocky ride so far. I don’t feel quite as home, and the lack of real time kills me at times, but I wanted to share with you how I’ve managed to make an initial comfortable nest on the new tree.

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After FriendFeed’s Sale, Trust In Social Sites Has Been Shattered

August 11, 2009
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It’s day two of the nightmare that started yesterday. I have been following comments, posts, news and feeds and one thing is certain.

People are mad.

Some users, like OurDoing’s creator, Bruce Lewis, haven’t been able to sleep. He wrote about his anger on a post on his blog, which caught the attention of some of the FriendFeed execs. You have to read the conversation as this is going on realtime, but it’s really amazing stuff that’s going on, it’s almost like looking at the disintegration of the Death Star in slow motion.

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With FriendFeed Out of the Way, Google Reader Has a Golden Opportunity

August 10, 2009
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This day has had a whirlwind of activity in many fronts. For the first time in the history of this blog I’m going to post twice in the same day.

But the news that Facebook acquired FriendFeed is really a shock for a lot of people.

You will be reading in the next couple of days a lot of information of what happened, why it happened, and what’s part of the deal.

I will summarize it in three short points and one possible once in a lifetime opportunity for Google Reader.

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PubSubHubbub + WordPress + Feedburner + FriendFeed = Realtime Awesomeness

July 27, 2009
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PubSubHubbub is a fancy name for a rather new protocol being promoted by various services like FriendFeed, which allows you to receive updates of RSS feeds without polling.

Basically it will allow blogs and readers to communicate real time, in a push-like method, like instant messaging, and not via pulls like the way it happens now (which can take minutes or even hours).

The cool thing about PubSubHubbub is that it works on top of existing protocols (in this case Atom) so readers and source don’t have to change much. The only thing you need is to notify a server that you published and the clients have to be subscribed to that server. Dave Winer has a good, deeper, explanation of how it works.

In this tutorial I will show you how to implement PubSubHubbub in a self-hosted installation of Wordpress, using Feedburner for feed distribution and FriendFeed as the receiving client. With this system in place, your blog posts will appear in your FriendFeed in a matter of seconds.

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